There are a lot of options out there for you in the great wide world of sex and intimacy.  But if you’re one of those people that has a hard time starting conversations about your likes and dislikes, I have a treat for you.  This is the yes, no, maybe list of erotic play.  Does it seem a lot like MASH or one of those stupid “Do You Like Me?” notes you’d pass to your crush during homeroom?  Well, it should, but the subject area is a little more risqué and a lot more enlightening than finding out that you’re going to live in a mansion in LA with 3 kids, married to Justin Timberlake.The ideas is to face all the possibilities there are for you sexually and look at the potential in each of them.  What do you like?  What really turns you off?  What might work under certain circumstances or with some negotiation?

My girlfriend and I just went through this last night and it lead to some great conversation.  Why don’t you try it out?  Here’s the list:


age play
anal intercourse
anal penetration
anal play
biting
blindfolds
body paint
bondage
breast whipping
breath control
caning
caressing
clamps
clit pumping
cock & ball torture
cock rings
consensual humiliation
cracking a whip
cross-dressing
cuddling
cunnilingus
cybersex
delayed orgasm
digital cameras
dildos
dominance/submission
double penetration
dressing slutty
dripping hot wax
enemas
erotic dancing
exhibitionism
extended orgasms
eye gazing
fantasizing
fellatio with penis
fellatio with strap-on
finger-fucking
flirting
flogging
forced chastity
frottage
genderplay
getting a tattoo
golden showers
group sex
hair pulling
hand job
holding hands
hot wax
hugging
ice cubes
kissing
kneeling
knife play
lacing up her corset
lap dancing
leather, rubber, or latex
licking feet
making porn
massage with sensual oils
Master/slave role play
masturbating together
masturbating with a vibrator
masturbation
multiple orgasms
negotiating sex
nibbling ears and neck
nipple clamps or clothespins
nipple pumping
online sex
outdoor sex
over-the-knee spanking
packing a dildo in your 501s
pain
paying for sex
penis pumping
phone sex
piercings
play parties
playing with sex toys
polishing boots
putting on a condom
putting on makeup
rape scenes
reading erotica
reapplying your lipstick
rimming
role play
Saran wrap
seduction
sensory deprivation
sex in secret
shaving
sixty-nine
snapping on a glove
spanking
strap-on sex
stripping
sucking labia
sucking nipples
talking dirty
threesome
tickling with feathers
tit torture
tribadism
triple penetration
vaginal fisting
vaginal intercourse
vibrators
voyeurism
watching porn
wearing a butt plug
wrestling
writing erotica
writing in a journal about sex

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